内心的自由

Rewatched 将爱情化为行动 and remember the freedom speech

但是如果没有内心的自由
就没办法体会到人生中许多美丽的事物
就像自助旅行一样
只有自由自在的走着
才会发现到别人所看不到的美景

What exactly is internal independence?
Hmm is it a hermit's way of finding peace? Like the Monk who sold his Ferrari? (I haven't finish that book either too.. oops!)

Lately World Vision was asking for people to help educate the woman saying through education, woman will marry later. Actually I do wonder if that is a good or bad thing. Just as I do wonder if woman being too independent and headstrong is good for marriage or not. There was this article in this month's Her World about a lady who decided to call off her engagement because she felt she just wasn't ready. She said if she had been more dependent, he would probably be the right guy.

Will she ever felt this eternal regret like how 中山龙和珍珠在《命中注定我爱你》 felt? But then if the guy moved on, then I guess probably not. Perhaps, that is the problem with educated girls. They cannot be submissive wives anymore. But whether it is good or bad is entirely subjective.

Actually everything has its pro and cons. And I guess I do want this 内心的自由. At least, I believed it will let me find my true self.