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Monday, February 28, 2011

The Ivory and Gold Tablecloth

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The brand new pastor and his wife, newly assigned to their first ministry, to reopen a church in suburban Brooklyn, arrived in early October excited about their opportunities. When they saw their church, it was very run down and needed much work. They set a goal to have everything done in time to have their first service on Christmas Eve.

They worked hard, repairing pews, plastering walls, painting, etc, and on December 18 were ahead of schedule and just about finished.

On December 19 a terrible tempest - a driving rainstorm hit the area and lasted for two days.

On the 21st, the pastor went over to the church. His heart sank when he saw that the roof had leaked, causing a large area of plaster about 20 feet by 8 feet to fall off the front wall of the sanctuary just behind the pulpit, beginning about head high.

The pastor cleaned up the mess on the floor, and not knowing what else to do but postpone the Christmas Eve service, headed home. On the way he noticed that a local business was having a flea market type sale for charity, so he stopped in. One of the items was a beautiful, handmade, ivory coloured, crocheted tablecloth with exquisite work, fine colours and a Cross embroidered right in the centre. It was just the right size to cover the hole in the front wall. He bought it and headed back to the church.

By this time it had started to snow. An older woman running from the opposite direction was trying to catch the bus. She missed it. The pastor invited her to wait in the warm church for the next bus 45 minutes later.

She sat in a pew and paid no attention to the pastor while he got a ladder, hangers, etc, to put up the tablecloth as a wall tapestry. The pastor could hardly believe how beautiful it looked and it covered up the entire problem area.

Then he noticed the woman walking down the centre aisle. Her face was white like a sheet.

"Pastor,” she asked, "where did you get that tablecloth?"

The pastor explained. The woman asked him to check the lower right corner to see if the initials, EBG were crocheted into it there. They were. These were the initials of the woman, and she had made this tablecloth 35 years before, in Austria.

The woman could hardly believe it as the pastor told how he had just gotten "The Tablecloth". The woman explained that before the war she and her husband were well-to-do people in Austria.

When the Nazis came, she was forced to leave. Her husband was going to follow her the next week. He was captured, sent to prison and never saw her husband or her home again

The pastor wanted to give her the tablecloth; but she made the pastor keep it for the church. The pastor insisted on driving her home. That was the least he could do. She lived on the other side of Staten Island and was only in Brooklyn for the day for a housecleaning job.

What a wonderful service they had on Christmas Eve. The church was almost full. The music and the spirit were great. At the end of the service, the pastor and his wife greeted everyone at the door and many said that they would return.

One older man, whom the pastor recognized from the neighbourhood continued to sit in one of the pews and stare, and the pastor wondered why he wasn't leaving.

The man asked him where he got the tablecloth on the front wall because it was identical to one that his wife had made years ago when they lived in Austria before the war and how could there be two tablecloths so much alike.

He told the pastor how the Nazis came, how he forced his wife to flee for her safety and he was supposed to follow her, but he was arrested and put in a prison. He never saw his wife or his home again all the 35 years between.

The pastor asked him if he would allow him to take him for a little ride. They drove to Staten Island and to the same house where the pastor had taken the woman three days earlier.

He helped the man climb the three flights of stairs to the woman's apartment, knocked on the door and he saw the greatest Christmas reunion he could ever imagine.

Written by Howard C. Schade and printed in Alice Gray’s Christmas Stories for the Heart in 1998, and in the December 1954 issue of Reader’s Digest.

The few details contained in the tale seem to indicate that the couple separated sometime after the German annexation of Austria (also known as the Anschluss) in 1938, which means that if their story had been written in 1954, they [would] have been split up for more than 16 years.”

Source: Snopes.com

Bflygal comments:

The Christchurch earthquake had been my morning news for the past few days. I remember when I first heard about it from my brother, I thought of my friend in Christchurch (thank goodness for FB, that I learnt she is safe). I remember I cried upon learning that some victims who did not make it, and I asked myself why am I here and what can I do to help. I remember the day the media was finally allowed to view the quake carnage, in 2 busloads of journalists and photographers, what it felt like when they stopped at an international educational centre where children were supposedly trapped. And it is indeed painful for these journalists to bring the message back to their own homelands.

So while reading this story, even if it isn’t true, I just felt that sometimes, disaster strike for a reason. We may not see it now, we may not see it 3 days later but if we stay strong and continue as planned what we wanted to do, we may find what we least expected. Because imagine if the pastor had really given up and postponed the Christmas Eve service, would the couple ever reunite?

Anyway I remembered in this morning news, I had found a pastor words very thought provoking.

1. He had commented that it is not only the significant Christ Church Cathedral that had collapsed, and there are many other significant churches and cathedrals damaged. 3 men who were supposed to remove an organ had died under the merciless hands of the earthquake. Sigh, the grief felt by their loved ones must be immense.

2. He had prayed that the excavation workers to first and foremost take extra care and caution in doing their job. And secondly, to recover the dead bodies as precariously as possible so as to return them to their loved ones. Indeed, respect must still be given to these dead bodies because it is the only precious thing left to their loved ones.

3. He had asked for all to pray, regardless of race and religion, in their own respective beliefs. And I recalled how the news here kept talking about sending their aid over to NZ to help. And that my friend told me back in SG, the news also talk about how they are sending THEIR aid over to help. Actually to the Kiwis, where these help are coming from probably isn’t important. They treasure every little help and assistance rendered to them.

Thus I guess praying is the only thing I can do now. Praying that there will be no more hoaxes which will waste these workers’ time and effort. Praying that there would be more miracles. Praying that people will be able to return to normalcy soon.

Note: 3 weeks later, as Prince William is preparing to visit the disaster zone which was off to everybody still, one can see that there is still much to be done. Sigh.

Monday, February 14, 2011

Significance of a Proposal

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Probably too many people had been talking to me about this topic which triggered my thoughts about it. The latest conversation was with my brother when he came to visit me and noticed my new toy – a ring watch.
The conversation triggered a few question markers namely:
1. Will you ever receive a ring as a gift from friends?
2. Must a proposal ring have a diamond on it?
3. Or in another perspective, can you accept a toy ring for proposal (something like what I bought for an e.g.) And backtrack to a past conversation with a friend on the significance of proposal generated the following questions
4. Can a graduate student who has not started working propose?
5. Would you accept that proposal when the future is still unknown?
6. What exactly is the significance of a proposal?
7. Can it elevate a person’s status? Or firms a relationship?
8. Is it just a mental action taken especially for long-term relationship where things do seem stagnant?
9. Does it mean you must buy a house immediately? Or starts planning for a life with each other immediately?
And then backtrack to another conversation with senpai who was ‘drilling’ me certain questions not related to proposal but nonetheless still has impact to BGR… 10. Can you accept a guy who does not have much savings?
11. Do you need a guy to hit a certain wealth marker before you embark on a permanent relationship with him?
Seriously, I’m not too sure if people had put in too much realistic expectations in love or think it is the path to financial freedom but when love and money starts to be in the equation, it makes life very complicated. I’m not saying that I believe in fairy tales where one lives happily ever after, or that I believe in Wu Xia Xiao Shuo where money never seems to run out for these heroes. But if everybody goes into a relationship with a certain level of expectations and if that expectations were not met, then are you using your heart or your head to fall in love?
Is it that tough to use both your heart and your head to fall in love? What if you are presented with 2 choices:
Guy A who doesn’t has much savings but is willing to work hard because he loves you.
Guy B who has inherited a huge pile of savings and does not need to work, thus he spends his time courting you lavishly too because he loves you just as much.
So since both guys love you just as much, never mind my theory that love cannot be compared or measured, the only difference is one who works hard versus one who does not need to work hard or maybe does not even work at all. Which do you prefer?
To me, seriously, even if the present moment shows a certain amount of security does not infer the future. And thus I can actually accept a guy who does not have much savings, and who uses a toy ring to propose to me. It surprises my senpai though because he says not many SG girls will accept it. Perhaps it is because for me, what I really want in life does not involve so much wealth. As long as it is sufficient for me to do what my heart truly desires. And love which comes in many forms, is but a bonus for me.

Friday, February 04, 2011

Faulpez varies her fried rice

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By cooking tomatoes with broccoli in it...

Or mushrooms

My latest variation..

adding ikan bilis

haha.. thanks to mum for a bottle of it.. and probably thankful the custom did not confiscate it?? (But I learn not to try to bring preserved orange peel.. wasted a bottle of it sigh)

Oh ya, and one thing they all have in common, I never put soy sauce in them. Haha in fact I never knew fried rice needs soy sauce till xL asked me for it. Then I realised our cooking actually emulates from our mothers and mine happen to NOT like to put soy sauce in her fried rice and thus I never knew fried rice needed soy sauce. The ingredients though is totally not my mum's version. Hers is standard ham, carrots, peas, fried potatoes .. hmm I miss that though adding potatoes into rice is a bit too much carbo plus I'm lazy to fry potatoes haha.

Leading a GPS of life

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After reading Slice of Life “Deciding on Your own Path” by Eugene Loh , and “Navigating life – with our inner GPS” by Chip Richards, I became very motivated in taking stock of my life and decide on the path that’s right for me.

Both of them told me to first imagine myself as the beginning for all things. Listen to myself and start making my needs my priority. Feel about myself, my needs and where my life is going. Is this the life I really want or the one I’ve been conditioned to desire?

Once you determine your destination, key into our GPS of life the destination. If we don’t do so, the GPS will be unable to guide us to our destination. Thus tell the GPS in clarity where we want to go. The GPS will then happily begin guiding us to our destination. (In the words of Chip Richards, note that “by claiming our responsibility to choose our destination, we are not overriding the power of Universe or GPS, we are only acknowledging and fulfilling our sacred partnership with it. We play our part by clarifying our intentions and following our deep inner promptings, and the Universe plays its role by reflecting those intentions back to us in our experience.)

Also if you notice how the GPS works, after the destination is keyed, it will then calibrate and calculate the best route to take. It may show you the entire route but when it delivers its directions, it goes step by step. And it only displays what the next 2 steps will be. It keeps you in the present, to only understand what you need to understand now.

Lastly, if you make a wrong turn, the GPS will not scold you or ask you to please turn back and go to that route again. Instead the GPS will just re-calibrate and show you the next best route to your intended destination. It does not judge that we should take the previous route which is more cost effective. It does not decipher our movements as good, bad, right or wrong. It takes these moves as just part of life choices that we made along the path, and that we will continue to make another one too. Perhaps at times it may acknowledge that we had indeed stray from the most direct path, but if we remain open to the infinite possibilities of the moment, even our straying will eventually lead us to where we want to go. Not a lesser way, just a different way. And perhaps there is a reason why we had to turn left instead of right at that time, just that we do not know it.

And thus I decided, it is time to harness my GPS of life to lead me to my life destiny.

Source:

Slice of Life “Deciding on Your own Path” by Eugene Loh

“Navigating life – with our inner GPS” by Chip Richards

Faulpez fries Thai Stir-fried Shrimp

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Ingredients:
shrimps (I bought 200g of it)
2 Tbsp Chilli Paste in soy bean oil
fresh chilies (I bought 1 only because I can't take spice)
long green beans
1 red capsicum
1 1/2 Tbsp sugar




Then I follow the instructions from Amporn's Thai Kitchen

1) Clean and peel shell of shrimps.
2) Wash long green beans and cut into short stripes.
3) Wash red pepper and cut into short stripes.
4) Peel garlic, wash them well then chop garlic.
5) Thinly slice the fresh chili.
6) Heat oil in a pan on medium heat.
7) When the oil is hot, add chopped garlic.
8) Add chilli paste in soy bean oil. Stir well.
9) Add cut long green beans and stir for 1 minute of until green beans are getting soft
10) Seasoning with sugar and thin soy sauce.
11) Add shrimps. Stir well until shrimps are cooked.
12) Add sliced fresh chilies.
13) Add cut red capsicum and stir until all ingredients mix thoroughly.

And it's done.. yummy! A bit too hot though so I ate with rice!

Lastly, I must be thankful for Amporn's Thai Kitchen for sharing such a great recipe!

p/s: More about Chilli Paste in Soya Bean Oil which was given to me by Thai gal when she left Melbourne last year...

Other names: Roasted Chilli Paste, nahm prik pow in Thai, chilli jam
Made primarily from roasted red chillis and ground dried shrimp with a wonderful mellow taste.
An excellent accompaniment to steamed jasmine rice. Often added to Tom Yum soup recipes to enhance taste and coloring. This paste is mildly spicy and somewhat sweet. Dip with shrimp crackers or chips, stir fry with vegetables or meat, or even spread on bread for an exotic sandwich.

Faulpez and her Napa Cabbage

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Ingredients:
- Napa Cabbage
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Napa_cabbage
- Garlic

Directions:
1. Heat the oil
2. Fry the garlic first
3. Then add the veggies in medium heat
4. Add a pinch of salt, some sugar and chicken powder
5. Cook for roughly 3 mins (just make sure the trunks of the veggie are not raw, cos the leaves would have been fully cooked by then)

Tip: You can add carrots for more colouring haha.

Faulpez stir frys chicken and celery

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Ingredients:
- 4 thighs
- 1 bundle of Celery (equal amount of celery with the thighs)

Directions:
1. Cut the thighs into small pieces
2. Marinate with salt, pepper, sugar (amt of sugar usually less than salt, otherwise the dish will be sweet which is abit weird), soy sauce, sesame oil, oil and cornflour (cornflour to be added just before cooking, purpose is to retain the water inside the chicken so that it will not come out and cause flooding)
3. Marinate it for 15-20 mins
4. Meantime, cut the celery into pieces
5. Heat the wok first then add the oil
6. Fry the garlic
7. Add the chicken
8. Then cook it till it is cooked.. (how to know it is cooked? When you can cut it easily)
9. Scoope it out
10. Lower the heat and add some oil
11. Throw in the celery
12. Add some water
13. Then add the chicken
14. Cooked for another 5 mins (well theoretically both the celery and chicken are almost cooked, the purpose of putting them together and let them stand for another 5 minutes or so is to let the celery juice sip into the chicken..)

Another variation I did was to add broccoli and more soy sauce.. though I didn't like the sauce as it still doesn't seem to taste like what my mum did. But it was still edible.

Faulpez test expired baking soda

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To test baking soda:
Mix 1/4 teaspoon of baking soda with 2 teaspoons of vinegar - the mixture should bubble immediately - if not, replace it.

To test baking powder:
Mix 1 teaspoon of baking powder with 1/2 cup hot water - the mixture should bubble immediately - if not, replace it.

Thursday, February 03, 2011

Grandparents

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If you are not a grandparent you will still love this. If you are it shows
how precious the babies are and what we mean to them.

WHAT IS A GRANDPARENT?
(Taken from papers written by a class of 8-year-olds)

Grandparents are a lady and a man who have no little children of their own.
They like other people's.

A grandfather is a man, & a grandmother is a lady!

Grandparents don't have to do anything except be there when we come to see
them.. They are so old they shouldn't play hard or run. It is good if they
drive us to the shops and give us money.*****BIG CNY Gang pows specially..................

When they take us for walks, they slow down past things like pretty leaves
and caterpillars.

They show us and talk to us about the colours of the flowers and also why we
shouldn't step on 'cracks.'

They don't say, 'Hurry up.'

Usually grandmothers are fat but not too fat to tie your shoes.

They wear glasses and funny underwear.

They can take their teeth and gums out.

Grandparents don't have to be smart..

They have to answer questions like 'Why isn't God married?' and 'How come
dogs chase cats?'

When they read to us, they don't skip. They don't mind if we ask for the
same story over again.

Everybody should try to have a grandmother, especially if you don't have
television because they are the only grownups who like to spend time with
us.


They know we should have snack time before bed time, and they say prayers
with us and kiss us even when we've acted bad.

A 6-YEAR-OLD WAS ASKED WHERE HIS GRANDMA
LIVED. ''OH,'' HE SAID, ''SHE LIVES AT THE AIRPORT, AND WHEN WE WANT HER, WE JUST GO GET HER. THEN WHEN WE'RE DONE HAVING HER VISIT, WE TAKE HER BACK TO THE AIRPORT.''

GRANDPA IS THE SMARTEST MAN ON EARTH! HE TEACHES ME GOOD THINGS, BUT I DON'T GET TO SEE HIM ENOUGH TO GET AS SMART AS HIM!

Bflygal comments: I read this via an email on 8th Feb 2011. And was reminded about the scene on 3rd Feb 2011. CNY first day. The first time my grandpa did not give me his CNY blessing. As I wished him happy CNY that day, I realised how fast a person can age. It seems to be like a roller coaster ride down as one approaches the end of his life. But how sure are we that the end is coming soon? Have we given up the hope of life too early? Forgive me that I do not have as much memories of him as I do of the rest of my other grandparents whom have all left me when I was young. Forgive me that even though I stayed with him for the recent years, I could no longer exchange much words with him by then. Forgive me that whatever past contributions he had done had been lost since we had sold that house though it was for his sake we had to move. And forgive me that as his granddaughter, I really did not and could not do anything at all. I could only wish that he is able to retain any beautiful memories that he would like to cherish to accompany him. I could only hope that this CNY, even though he was no longer aware of it, he would be able to enjoy it sufficiently.

p/s: Lately, quite a lot of people has been commenting that I am heartless. As my own worst critic, if I keep allowing these people to say such stuff to me, I probably will break down. Truth is, I don't think I am heartless. Is just that I need to put in effort and that takes time. And sometimes, I really don't know what are their demands. I remember sempai in the past define friends as someone who must meet regularly. And always say I'm not a good friend. But after awhile, he realised that meetups are time consuming and dropped his expectation of friends. Because seriously if I listen to his demands, I probably will tire out only. Anyway sigh I know I still owe capricorn friend an email just as I owe CL lots of emails.. I also wish I have 72 hours a day because I don't seem to have sufficient time to accomplish everything. I really feel that human relationships are so tricky that I really want to be a hermit soon. Then perhaps I will not feel so guilty at not spending sufficient time and effort with everybody whom I care for.