To My Friends Who Are...........SINGLE
Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, the more it eludes you. But if you just let it fly, it will come to you when you least expect it. Love can make you happy but often it hurts, but love's only special when you give it to someone who is really worth it. So take your time and choose the best.
To My Friends Who Are............HEARTBROKEN
Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut as deep as you allow them to go. The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them.
To My Friends Who Are............NAIVE
How to be in love: Fall but don't stumble, be consistent but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, and get hurt but never keep the pain.
To My Friends Who Are............AFRAID TO CONFESS
Love hurts when you break up with someone. It hurts even more when someone breaks up with you. But love hurts the most when the person you love has no idea how you feel.
To My Friends Who Are............NOT SO SINGLE
Love isn't about becoming somebody else's 'perfect person.' It's about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.
To My Friends Who Are............PLAYBOY/GIRL TYPE
Never say 'I love you' if you don't care. Never talk about feelings if theyaren't there. Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart. Never look in the eye when all you do is lie. The cruelest thing a guy can do to a girl is to let her fall in love when he doesn't intend to catch her fall and it works both ways...
To My Friends Who Are............ENGAGED
The true measure of compatibility is not the years spent together but how good you are for each other.
To My Friends Who Are............MARRIED
Love is not about 'it's your fault', but 'I'm sorry.' Not 'where are you', but 'I'm right here.' Not 'how could you', but 'I understand.' Not 'I wish you were', but 'I'm thankful you are.'
To My Friends Who Are............POSSESSIVE
It breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with someone else but it's more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.
To My Friends Who Are............STILL HOLDING ON
A sad thing about life is when you meet someone and fall in love, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and that you have wasted years on someone who wasn't worth it. If he isn't worth it now he's not 'going to be worth it a year or 10 years from now. Let go.....
TO ALL MY FRIENDS.......
My wish for you is a man/women whose love is honest, strong, mature, never-changing, uplifting, protective, encouraging, rewarding and unselfish.
Author’s comments:
The reason I am posting is because I like the first four advices although not completely.
Single –
"A butterfly is a love note folded into two"I still remember that quote vividly.. think it is for a movie… By the way, I don’t agree with taking your time and choosing the best because there isn’t really a best actually as you are not comparing and or choosing like how you choose fruits. That’s not accepting/finding love, that is grocery shopping. However I think the idea here is like how Li-Ann in Leap Year, waited for that special someone and not gets hitched for the sake of getting hitched (initially).
Heartbroken – have you learn from the lessons?
Naïve – Reminded me of the courage to face love…
Afraid to confess – Maybe that is the only reason why confessions were made even though we regret it later on, especially when it seems to change how we react towards each other.. in a more cold, distant, unapproachable and maybe even harsher way…
Three things never returned...Oh and to all my friends, yeah I sincerely wish you such a love although I had mentioned love comes in different forms and while most preferred eros love, if you had chosen agape, I wish you luck too. However the song dedication below is more appropriate for those who prefer eros love haha. It’s quite a simple yet sweet song which I heard it yesterday while on the journey back. The MV is very cute too.. Valen is so pretty as usual.. the guy is boyish looking too haha.. dunno who he is though. But the last part, when the girl reach out to the guy, why must the guy take so long to react ah? Zzz...
The past, the neglected opportunity, and the spoken word
许茹芸 & 阿穆隆 - 男人女人
女: 爱爱爱爱了几回
也明白其中滋味
付出的从来不会等于收回
我却还在等待着谁能出现
男: 伤伤伤伤了几回
也曾经为爱憔悴
爱情里好人总比坏人狼狈
我却还是学不会狠心对谁
女: 男人男人多希望你是好人
多希望用你的真让我不必再心疼
男: 女人女人我答应做个好人
我答应用我一生来换你的快乐一生
女: 爱爱爱爱了几回
也明白其中滋味
付出的从来不会等于收回
我却还在等待着谁能出现
男: 伤伤伤伤了几回
也曾经为爱憔悴
爱情里好人总比坏人狼狈
我却还是学不会狠心对谁
女: 男人男人多希望你是好人
多希望用你的真让我不必再心疼
男: 女人女人我答应做个好人
我答应用我一生来换你的快乐一生
女: 男人男人多希望你是好人
多希望用你的真让我不必再心疼
男: 女人女人我答应做个好人
合: 不会再让我(你)心疼一等再等
你就是我等的那个人
男: 男人男人
女: 女人女人
合: 多么希望你是对的人
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