爱过，总比没爱好

Suddenly missed Kokoro so went to check it out... and realised it changed. All the old flash files are gone. What they showcase though is the classic Rain & Tear
and Ai Qing 886... and they say there is an upcoming show
...

Still remember the first time I watch Kokoro was because of Star


Sighz all these years, I never thought of buying Wu Ruo Quan book either. But I was never disappointed by the flash from his story.

Seeing Rain & Tear ad again, I decided to re-read my post on it and found the quote ... and the song.
錯過的愛，通常也是愛的過錯。
有些人，因為太愛對方而失去自己。
有些人，則因為太愛自己而失去對方。
幸福，其實是懂得割捨之後的滿足。
--> http://arielm.blogspot.com/2004/12/blog-post.html

It has been 2.5 years, but somehow I felt like nothing change. Lately I re-read back what I posted and realised after so many years, I still hold the same attitude with regards to my life. All these years, maybe there are people who tried to change me, people who I tried to change for. Hmm .. suddenly i have a cest la vie feeling!

Anyway I saw another quote in 吴若权《爱过，总比没爱好》
不要因为害怕分离；就不肯相聚。
也不要因为或许会分手；就不敢相爱。
爱情，和人生中许多事情一样——
过程比结果重要；爱过总比没爱好。

Coincidentally At Dolphin Bay also dealt with this topic in episode 11. Maybe I will talk more about it again.. and maybe I willn't. I'm just tired... maybe a one-liner, the girls in the show knows love and dares to love; the guys in the show is forever hesitant, fickle and afraid to show...