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Saturday, December 25, 2010

LDR...

It rained immediately after I reached home. And I suddenly remember Kokoro’s Rain and Tears again…

你知道吗 在雨天认识的人 会变成好朋友啊
- Rain and Tears Last Epi

I always remember the ending.
錯過的愛,通常也是愛的過錯。
有些人,因為太愛對方而失去自己。
有些人,則因為太愛自己而失去對方。
幸福,其實是懂得割捨之後的滿足。
《冬季到台北來看雨- 戀雨》

cL, just before I say bye to you, we talked about Love 50% again. Do you remember how the Merlion met her lover. It was also because of heavy rain and the guy sheltered her… for 3 years. Of course, that guy is different from this Rain and Tears. But well, I did say if this story is your story, we can always modify it right? And modifying it to Rain and Tears story line is probably nicer than Love 50%. As you and I both agree, that it is impossible for a girl to just fall in love with a guy from Taiwan within a day when both of them were supposed to have someone else in their heart. But then well, in the first place I can say that guy never did love the rich lady and was just interested in the proposition. But the Merlion had truly loved this married guy and even if she knows she should leave him, she never considered that for the past 3 years. So I can only tell you that this story is not plausible other than the fact that Merlion can withdrew all her money, leaving only 3 dollar in her bank account. Because that girl belongs to someone who can be reckless in the name of love, which you will understand I believe.

And in Rain and Tears, there is an element of LDR. My last question for you before you leaves SG for estimated 2 years. Don’t know why it seems like the jigsaw puzzle suddenly fits the moment I think of Rain and Tears haha. And don’t know why it had to be Rain and Tears because it did not end happily. Actually the ending was never clear because if the lady had been in the plane, she should not be able to make the phone call. And if she really did make the phone call in the plane, it should be her fault that caused the explosion? And if that is the case, she has to accept the lot that they were never meant to be.

Here is the last episode for you.
《冬季到台北來看雨- 戀雨》

Anyway you will probably ask me what my opinion of LDR is. And I can probably tell you that a decade ago, I chose not to dabble it. You asked me what will be the likelihood of waiting for the taxi at the same time. Hmm I must do some statistics to answer that question for you as remember you are a data miner at heart. And I can tell you very slim, but definitely possible because man are of habits and will wait at the same place at the same time.

Remember I once told you, I do have preference towards Love in a Cab because it can be real. All I need is to list out all my school friends whom I have been keeping contact for a decade, then see who’s the available one and who’s the plausible one right? But having said all these, you must remember, like you, I am no longer based in SG. Which leads me to the question of how to make LDR works? A question I asked you a few times while I was in Melbourne too. Because the people around me seem to be having such a tough time managing it that it actually scares me. And in Rain and Tears, the lady chose to give up too because ultimately, she wanted to be free to pursue her dreams. And LDR has become but a burden to her. So I want to ask you, is LDR a burden? And as long as I can never understand how to work out LDR, I can tell you, the college story will never turn into anything other than an innocent story of two persons just keeping contact as per normal. Because remember in Love in a Cab, when the minute hand and the second hand both stopped together before they met, they actually will never meet each other again. Agreed?

p/s: Now is showing MZZDWAN again.. hmm.. miss Qiao En!!!

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